
Wow back to school already where did the summer go? Another year older and another grade higher. How will that first day go? Will it run smoothly or will it be bumpy? How can you make a difference this year? How will you fit in with the “cool” kids this year? Do you have to be apart of the in crowd? What about things that have happened over the summer are there fences we need to mend? Are there bridges we need to build to reach someone? If we didn’t do it last year guess what its never to late to start. As always I can pick up any book and start to read and its always a revelation to something that is happening right now in my life. Well I wanted to share it with you. This comes from : The Word Among Us Daily Meditations for Lent 2006 Saturday March 11th.
I say to you, love our enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
(Matthew 5:44)
What does it mean to love our enemies? Certainly this can’t be possible when we face a situation of extreme injustice, or when we are deeply hurt by someone close to us? An yet, Jesus tells us not to only forgive but to pray for our enemies and those who persecute us. What a tall order?
The Greek word for the type of love Jesus tells us to have for enemies is Agape. This is a different kind of love than the love we naturally have for our family. It is different from the romantic love between two people or the fatherly love that God has for us. Agape does not mean a feeling of the heart as much as a determination of the mind and will. It is the decision to love those we do not like and who maybe do not like us.
On our own strength we cannot forgive or forget the hurts and insults we suffer. It is simple part of our fallen, human condition. And yet, God is asking it of us. And the answer lies in the person of Jesus and his Holy Spirit, who came to be with us after Jesus ascended to heaven. Granted, we may have to turn to the Spirit many times for strength to forgive, but no matter how long it takes he will give us the strength we need. It is in the will that the battle will be won. We may have to start out by saying to God, “I’m willing to be made willing to forgive,” and let the desire grow from there. The ability to forgive may have to come in stages, but when we call on the power of the Holy Spirit, we will ultimately see victory.
We may have to take many baby steps on the way to forgiving those who have hurt or harmed us, but with God’s help we can do it. Yes, we really can follow in the footsteps of all the great saints in our history. What’s more, by God’s grace we can even become like Jesus. Who forgave those who tortured him and him on the cross.
“Holy Spirit, please comfort all those who suffer today from hurts and insults of others. Pour the love of God into their hearts so that they can forgive and be healed."
Its so amazing how things happen as they do. I know it’s not by chance but it is God showing me the way that is right in front of me. A year ago I was hurt by a very close friend. Recently she had returned for a short visit. I was so upset about her visit that it made me physically sick. At my age how could I allow something like that disturb me so much to make me sick? How could I allow it to happen? Today as I described the events to another friend I told her how I was mad at myself for not being the better Christian and to forgive and forget. She politely reminded me that its never too late. Well darn it don’t you hate it when someone is right and you know it.!!!
Are you asking yourself “why is she telling us all this”?
Well my point is that we are all the same, no matter how old I am we still have the same things happen to us. Your parents are also still experiencing the same things just in a different setting. This will never go away. So we need to learn to follow in the footsteps of Jesus, we need to learn how to forgive and to forget how to accept God’s graces to be the better Christian. As you begin your first day (or week) of school remember that its never too late to reach out to that person that has hurt you in the past, or to someone who needs a new friend. As I watched all of you the other night I could see the Love (agape) in your eyes. I know its there so lets share it with the world!!!!!
Peace Cynthia